Loss of a Monkey

At this point I suspect most of you have heard of the passing, and very unexpected passing of Davy Jones, one of the members of a 60’s group called the Monkeys.  I remember growing up and watching their show on TV, or at least some of the re-runs I for sure recall.  I have their … [Read more…]

Loss and Gain

As I gain my family back together again, one member is experiencing a loss and a gain at the same time.  Kris has decided to move to Dubuque this weekend.  She has a job starting on Monday, and if all works well she will stay at the job and stay living in Dubuque.  While the rest of … [Read more…]

Comes in droves….

The last several days I have been dealing with a feeling inside that has been hard to explain.  I am thankful for taking my “Loss and Grief” class, as it has allowed me to or maybe it is better put, forced me to explore these feelings rather than dismiss them.  Normally I might just let … [Read more…]

Don, Rest in Jesus’ arms until we see each other again

Over the weekend I was told about a member from my congregation that had passed away.  I knew he was sick and had been in hospice care for a few months now.  When I first heard that he most likely would pass very soon, I said a prayer for him.  Don attend our services regularly.  He … [Read more…]

Obsessed with celebrity loss

Twenty four seven coverage every time a celebrity dies is just so amazing.  What is it that attracts us to other peoples experience in loss?  What about sharing in their grief?  As I been watching and for the most part, unwillingly watch the drama of the Whitney Huston coverage, I began to ponder what this means to me and … [Read more…]